Things I won't miss about my ex

She asked if Flay the cat (our child's new kitten) could stay overnight Saturday night as she would be out most or all of the night. With caveats (major one being that She pick up the cat SUNDAY MORNING) I agreed. SUNDAY around noon, She calls and asks if She wants me to pick up the cat - because if I do She can pick it up at 3:30pm. Dumb shit. I don't care if She was up all night, what the fuck right does She have to decide She isn't going to get the cat when She said She would? No more favors for Her. I end up being so resentful when She changes what She says and doesn't ask - She just assumes. Ironic that those kind of things piss Her off so much when someone else does them.

Got a call last week started with "I am going to borrow the xmas lights for this party at such-and-such a place". Now She is not xian, does not celebrate or decorate for xmas, and many of the lights predated our marriage. Not a "Would you mind if I borrowed the lights". She said "I will label them so we are sure to get them back and if any are lost or broken I will pay for them". ok. I get home 2 days later to find the lights rolled up on the kitchen table. I wonder outloud why they are on the table since they were in the basement in a box. Our child says "Oh Mom said they didn't need the lights for the party". Still She went to the trouble to dig them out of a box somewhere in the basement and then when She doesn't need them She just leaves them on the table. Thanks bitch, I don't have enough to do trying to get ready to move out of this house that you haven't been paying your share of over the last 6 months so I have been going into debt and have no money left to afford a place to live which I have to nail down in the next 2 weeks, I was hoping someone would give me more things to pack up and put away. Thanks a lot!

Mother's day. I took C4 out to buy flowers for her mom for mother's day. I think it would have been polite for X2 to say "thank you" to me for taking C4 out shopping for her.

Last week She and I had conversations about things we needed to get done before the house closing. Top on the list still remaining were item#1 and item#2. I talked to She again on Monday and told She that I had no luck getting item#1 contractors to call back but I had a company that could do item#2 work that was doing an estimate for us and I was awaiting a call back from them - we agreed that if the estimate was for considerably less than the house buyer's estimate I should go ahead and schedule them to do it ASAP. I asked if She could call about item#1 - She said "sure". (She is unemployed and has been for months so has the time - my calls are during work) I called She today (thursday) to find out about progress on finding someone to give an estimate on item#1 and to let She know that I had scheduled the item#2 installation for later in the month. She said "You mean how are my calls on item#2 installers going?" I said no, item#1. She said "I have my notes right here from our last conversation and you asked me to call about item#2". Why I would have told her that or she would have written that down AFTER I told her that I had faxed the project specifications to an item#2 company for an estimate is completely beyond my comprehension.