Things I won't miss about my ex

there is a local community group based on a strong interest that She also shares. During the marriage She made a couple of attempts to get involved in this "cool" community and didn't like the results or the experiences she had with people in the group. She complained that they were insular, and unfriendly, kind of snobby and not open to outsiders. She didn't like their attitude. Now a couple of years later she has managed to insinuate herself into the community and is thoroughly enmeshed to the point that she no doubt considers herself an "insider". Congrats and whoop-de-do, She is now one of the elitist, insular unfriendly people - I always knew she had it in her.